Brian and I went away this weekend - actually, the place where we went is only about 3 miles from our house, but whenever we're there it feels like we're in another state.
The place we stayed at is called Moondance B&B, and it's right in Fond du Lac. Our friend Sue owns it - it's actually a one-bedroom house on her property. What's great about Moondance (besides the gorgeous decor and the view!) is that guests are left to their own devices - there's a full kitchen and it's stocked with whatever is requested. For us, that meant Thomas English muffins. :D Sue always leaves little treats, too - this time we were greeted by a plate of muffins and a mni pie from the Little Farmer, an orchard/farm that makes incredible pies, muffins and other fall treats. This was our second time staying at Moondance - the first time was in January, for our 4th wedding anniversary. It was wonderfully relaxing, when I was able to relax.
Which brings me to the actual post - why is it so hard to relax and do nothing? Is this weird? Do any of you reading this have a similar problem?
It always baffles me when people tell me that they went to some wonderful all-inclusive resort somewhere and did nothing but lay by the pool and drink margaritas - I'm a little envious, too. I would have a hard time doing that. I can handle the pool for about an hour and then I have to do something else. If I have a book along I may be able to eek out another hour, but it would have to be an engaging book. No, I would much rather be exploring what the city has to offer (museums, attractions, etc.) and learning something.
In my "normal" life, during the week, I'm always busy. If I'm not writing in my blog or updating the many facebook pages I administer, I'm in the studio or visiting friends or attending meetings in between running errands and cooking dinner. But you'll never catch me just reading, and the TV is never on during the day. To me, that would be "cheating". I feel like I have to be productive all the time.
I wonder where this notion came from - kids certainly don't feel this way! As an adult I've felt like this since I can remember, but I think it got worse when I quit my 9-5 job in January. Now that my job consists of me being creative, I'll admit that I feel a little guilty about having so much fun and getting paid for it. It still blows my mind that I get to do what I love for a living. Maybe I'm worried that if I fully relax on the weekends, people will either think I'm a spoiled princess or a total slacker, either of which would be upsetting.
I was sick a couple of weeks ago and spent two days in bed. I did nothing, and I was okay with it, but I didn't feel well. Maybe that's why we get sick - it's our body's way of telling us that we can slow down and the universe won't stop spinning if we're not a part of it for a couple days. Now if I could only do that when I'm feeling good, I'd be all set. :D
September 20, 2010
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